The importance of people caring for you

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“I’ve played with the team for about a year now. I joined last season, and it’s one of the things I love doing. We’re like a big family, and even though we lose more often than we win, it’s good banter and a load of fun. I’ve always played for able bodied teams, and I’ve never had any trouble with my disability playing for them. It’s nice to be doing something where they’re not checking up on us all the time, they let us get on with it, and wait for me to tell them rather than them asking me things. I’ve got lots more freedom when I’m there, it’s pushed to one side and you’re just there, having a good time.”

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FootballFinal

“I’ve played with the team for about a year now. I joined last season, and it’s one of the things I love doing. We’re like a big family, and even though we lose more often than we win, it’s good banter and a load of fun. I’ve always played for able bodied teams, and I’ve never had any trouble with my disability playing for them. It’s nice to be doing something where they’re not checking up on us all the time, they let us get on with it, and wait for me to tell them rather than them asking me things. I’ve got lots more freedom when I’m there, it’s pushed to one side and you’re just there, having a good time.”

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“My mum’s been there for us all the time, all what I’ve been through, and since I was little. She always takes us places and drops us off, and when I was getting my operations she would always be there, she’d stay in the hospital, like, straight afterwards, like, she would have her own bed and that. She would stay over to make sure I was okay… If I was upset or anything like that, she would make us feel better and when I came home from the hospital, when I had my leg in the cast she did stuff for us.”

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MumFinal

“My mum’s been there for us all the time, all what I’ve been through, and since I was little. She always takes us places and drops us off, and when I was getting my operations she would always be there, she’d stay in the hospital, like, straight afterwards, like, she would have her own bed and that. She would stay over to make sure I was okay… If I was upset or anything like that, she would make us feel better and when I came home from the hospital, when I had my leg in the cast she did stuff for us.”

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“My boyfriend helps me a lot. When I went in to hospital he came in to see me every day, and when I came out of hospital he kept texting me saying ‘How are you doing, how was everything’, and he helps me, ‘cos I couldn’t put weight on my legs for a while, till my ankle got strong enough and he used to carry me places. He picks me up like a doll, he thinks I’m a doll I’m sure of it! But he used to help me get up stairs, he helps me walk and got my chair for me, and he got things for me and he supports me quite a lot. Took me out places like on buses and things, shouted at people when they used to call me horrible names.”

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BoyfriendFinal

“My boyfriend helps me a lot. When I went in to hospital he came in to see me every day, and when I came out of hospital he kept texting me saying ‘How are you doing, how was everything’, and he helps me, ‘cos I couldn’t put weight on my legs for a while, till my ankle got strong enough and he used to carry me places. He picks me up like a doll, he thinks I’m a doll I’m sure of it! But he used to help me get up stairs, he helps me walk and got my chair for me, and he got things for me and he supports me quite a lot. Took me out places like on buses and things, shouted at people when they used to call me horrible names.”

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“My dad goes diving a lot, so I wanted to do it. I love it, surrounded by lovely warm water, lovely plants, gorgeous fish and the sun beating down on the water. It’s pretty really, and relaxing. I feel happy ‘cos I’m with my dad and I’m doing something me and my dad love. Being in the water makes me feel free ‘cos I’m not in pain. The water is holding my body weight, so I can do anything basically. My muscle’s not fighting with each other. It’s lovely.”

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DiversFinal

“My dad goes diving a lot, so I wanted to do it. I love it, surrounded by lovely warm water, lovely plants, gorgeous fish and the sun beating down on the water. It’s pretty really, and relaxing. I feel happy ‘cos I’m with my dad and I’m doing something me and my dad love. Being in the water makes me feel free ‘cos I’m not in pain. The water is holding my body weight, so I can do anything basically. My muscle’s not fighting with each other. It’s lovely.”